Indian culture will blow you away.
Modern India is a home to over a billion people, and it's one of the world's largest ethnic melting pots. The culture of India is a result of influences from immigrants fleeing to the country for the last centuries.
Apart from alien smells and the delicious Indian food, there's a lot more to this country. Numerous ethnic groups mean different Indian cultures, and also different appearances and way of living. When you travel around India from north to south, there's no doubt that you'll notice the vast contrasts!
Like, the Sikhs are taller than the Indians, the gypsy-like Aryan people in the northern part of the country have blue eyes, compared to the brown-eyed South Indians and so on.
All of this together emphasizes one thing: India has a colorful diversity.
To understand the India culture, you need to understand the Indian religion.
Here I've focused on Hinduism:
Indians are conscious about social order because of the influence from the caste system. This applies in all relations; family, friends, colleagues, and even strangers.
1) the staring and
2) the personal questions
They stare at you like if you were an alien, but they normally do this because they're curious. Some will even start taking pictures of you, like you were the attraction.
How to handle the staring?
I tried to stare back once, but it didn't work. It felt awkward to look into a stranger's eyes for too long, so I dropped out of the staring contest. Ignore it, and do something else until you can't sense their staring anymore. It's India.
How about handling the personal questions? Adjust! Play along, and smile! ;-)
The older and more respected they are, the more important this is.
Things take time; delayed trains and buses, long queues, the food you ordered takes time, and so on.
Example: We took the bus from Jaipur to Delhi (2007), and we had chosen a bus that would correspond with the flight to Bangkok.
The bus was supposed to leave at 10 pm, but it didn't leave until 11.15 pm. The bus driver kept saying '10 minutes, 10 minutes'. Those minutes became much longer, it was so stressful.
As a ground rule in the culture of India, Indian men are brought up to keep their distance with women, hence respect them. But how come there are stories about Indian men harassing foreign women?
Well, the ground rule has apparently exceptions. Why they do it, can be a lot of things, like if you're improperly dressed. But even women travelers wearing respectable clothing can be victims of sexual harassment. The question is:
How do you handle it?
If it's possible, move away as far as possible. If that's not possible, make a fuss. Some Indian men don't (or don't want to) understand the word "no," so make a scene if there's no other option (yell or scream). They'll be so embarrassed that they have to leave you alone.
It's common to eat with your right hand,
for instance you should use your hands when eating thali meals like this one
It's considered dirty because that's the hand they're using when washing themselves after toilet business.
Most Indians like their food spiced up, and I mean really spiced up with especially masala spices. In South India, I witnessed several locals adding spices to their water... yeah, I know!
And they also added masala to their fruit salad. Their taste buds are so accustomed to spicy food that they literally have to add spices to everything.
This is considered as respect for the food that has been served.
When invited to a local's home, you'll feel like an honored guest. The Indians are known to be warm and give great hospitality.
Make sure that the shorts or skirt is below the knee, and avoid showing off too much flesh.
For female travelers, the best thing would be to wear traditional clothing like 'churidar'. More and more travelers do this and has a good effect on the way locals perceive you. You should wear the shawl that comes with the churidar.
The locals said to me: 'without the shawl, you're not really wearing a churidar'.
It might sound obvious to you, but it's easy to forget. Avoid loud laughter and conversation. And most importantly, don't criticize the religion. If you have to, do it in your head or after the visit.
Physical contact between the sexes is considered as provocative behavior, and will usually cause a negative effect in large parts of India.
What so weird though, is the common sight of two men holding hands together in public, walking down the streets like they were a couple. You will often see this in the big cities.
Why are there cows almost everywhere you go in India?
In Hinduism, cows are a symbol of life and considered as a source of food. So it can't be killed, and hence they're just left alone.
The Indian Peacock is the national bird of India, and is a symbol of pride, beauty and royalty.
It's considered as sacred in India.
You'll notice them when visiting great palace sites, either engraved in the wall or alive in a beautiful garden.
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